There are a lot of people out there who are going to tell you what they think of your book.
Critique groups. Beta readers. Agents. Editors. Reviewers.
And, of course, readers.
Sometimes we seek out this feedback. We hire a pro editor for a critique of our finished draft, for example.
Or perhaps we share our pages with a trusted circle of fellow writers, asking for their notes on how to improve.
What to do with these notes is a sticky question.
What if we don’t agree with them? Should we trust ourselves, or our note-givers?
Getting feedback is also emotionally difficult. Nobody likes to be told their work needs work!
This subject is top-of-mind for me today because I’m in the middle of revising my next book.
I have a detailed editorial letter in hand. I have a deadline, of course. So how do I approach this revision?
In this livestream we look at the best way to handle feedback. How do you sort through and...
My dear storyteller, I hope no one has said this to you, but if you’ve heard it, please console yourself with the knowledge that you’re not alone. Buckle up and let’s get it over with:
“I just didn’t care about your main character. You need to make her more likeable. More relatable!”
Bah, humbug! I had to say it. Yet how many earnest writers have heard this all-too-common bit of feedback, licked their wounds for a minute, and then bravely proceeded to revise their draft to remove every character defect, cross word, and unpleasant facial expression from the manuscript?
Then, after all traces of humanity have been stripped out, the poor writer who’s fallen into the “likeability trap” throws in a saving-kittens-from-the-floodwaters scene for good measure, and perhaps adds a charming dollop of self-doubt and dorkiness to amp up...
Remember the famous baby shampoo ad? No more tears!
That this sudsy slogan is what today’s topic makes me think of is reveals a lot. Getting feedback on our writing can be overwhelming in a way that feels disproportionate. Depending on what that feedback is, it can make our day or keep us up all night fretting.
Consider how often you’ve heard this bundle of advice: Because writers “lack objectivity,” you must share your work for feedback, be in a critique group, have beta readers pore over your final draft, and/or pay for a professional edit, and you must rewrite, rewrite, rewrite to "fix" all the flaws found by this ragtag army of critics.
But when does all this input start to be counterproductive? What if the feedback is contradictory, or just feels off? How do we know which notes to take and which to ignore?
To give feedback on other’s work is a delicate task; to receive feedback...